Putting Passion Back Into Your Romance
Has the fire of your romance dwindled to a smoldering heap?
Put the passion back into your relationship and turn that heap into a mountain of molten lava…
If the waves of fire have slipped out of your romance, odds are you've been with your partner for a while now. Familiarity has a way of erasing excitement. However, many couples who have been together for decades manage to keep their romance at the melting stage. Let's discuss some ways to invite that magic into your relationship.
Do something shocking! There was a story once about a gynecologist who walked in unexpectedly on a patient and was aroused at what he saw. As a trained professional, he was accustomed to meeting 'patients in waiting', legs spread, eyes on the ceiling. However, when he entered the 'patient holding' room, the patient had not been apprised that the doctor was on his way, and she was in a position that suddenly created this unexpected arousal for the doc. Of course, as a professional he excused himself, then provided the patient time to prepare for his exam.
By this little example, we can see how something totally unexpected can perk up things! If your partner and you generally wear pj's to bed, shock him/her by foregoing the undies. Or, try wearing something totally shocking, such as a fur lei, ostrich feathers, or a bonnet – anything that will grab attention and toss a little excitement into the arena. Go a step further and check out some playtime toys.
Use scents to create a romantic aura. Scents are magical and play a very vital role in the sexual scheme of a relationship. Scented candles, scented linen sprays, scented air fresheners, and scented lotions all work very well in painting a passionate picture of romance. One of the best scents to experiment with, is your own.
Sweet music tames the savage beast. It can also bring out the beast! Play some dynamite tunes to liven up your jungle. Dance together, or perform a solo dance for your mate. You can be as cute or as erotic as you choose.
Food, the all-around solution for whatever ails anyone. Choose some love-god and love-goddess foods such as strawberries, champagne, whipped topping in a spray can, fruit, cheese, wine – anything you both enjoy! Incorporate these into your lovemaking sessions. If things go sour, you can always have a food fight.
Postioning for love. People tend to be like cattle; they get used to going into a certain gate or stall and they keep entering the same way until someone changes their direction. Don't get locked into one lovemaking position. Experiment, and have the sense to quit before becoming too entangled. Those type of 911 calls can make one feel painfully stupid.
Keep your expectations within reasons. Sultry romance novels, gaudy talk shows, and smutty tabloids are out of the realm of reality 99% of the time. Try to think of these outlets as entertainment rather than comparing them with your sexual experiences.
Cherish is the word. Cherish the one that you love, for tomorrow may never come.
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